Are you in a long distance relationship and struggling to find ways to keep the love alive? Worry not, because we have compiled a list of 45 things you can do to keep the spark alive even when you're miles apart. From heartfelt gestures to creative date ideas, here are some ideas to help you make the most of your long distance relationship:
45 Things You Need to Do in Your Long Distance Relationships
1. Set a regular communication schedule
Establish a routine for calls, video chats or texts that work for both of you.
2. Send surprise snail mail
Surprise your partner with handwritten letters, postcards, or small gifts by mail.
3. Create a photo journal
Share pictures and memories with each other by creating a photo journal or digital album.
4. Play online games together
Engage in friendly competition by playing online multiplayer games or mobile games.
5. Keep a joint journal
Start a journal where both of you can write your thoughts and feelings, and exchange it during visits.
6. Have a virtual movie night
Sync up and watch a movie or TV show together using streaming platforms and video chat.
7. Cook together
Plan a dinner date via video chat, where both of you cook the same recipe at the same time.
8. Take virtual tours
Explore museums, landmarks, or new cities together by taking virtual tours online.
9. Share your favorite playlists
Create shared playlists and enjoy each other's music recommendations.
10. Share a sunset or sunrise
Set up a video call and watch the sunset or sunrise together from your respective locations.
11. Send surprise care packages
Fill a box with a collection of your partner's favorite things and send it to them as a surprise.
12. Order surprise delivery meals
Order a meal to be delivered to your partner's doorstep as a treat.
13. Send surprise digital gifts
Surprise your partner with e-books, online courses, or subscriptions to their favorite services.
14. Send voice or video messages
Record and send heartfelt messages to let your partner know you're thinking of them.
15. Set a countdown for special occasions
Create a countdown for upcoming visits or important milestones in your long distance relationship.
16. Read the same book
Choose a book to read together and discuss your thoughts and favorite parts.
17. Start a virtual book club
Expand your reading experience by inviting friends to join a virtual book club.
18. Learn a new language together
Find online language courses or apps and learn a new language together.
19. Start a shared blog or vlog
Create a blog or vlog together to document your long distance journey and adventures.
20. Work on a puzzle together
Collaborate on a jigsaw puzzle by each working on different sections and sharing progress.
21. Set goals together
Discuss your individual goals and create a plan on how to support each other in achieving them.
22. Take online courses or workshops
Pursue personal growth by taking online courses or workshops that interest you.
23. Share your daily highlights
Take time each day to share the highlights of your day and what you are grateful for.
24. Read relationship books together
Choose relationship books to read and discuss together for self-improvement.
25. Create a vision board
Share your goals and dreams by creating a virtual vision board together.
26. Plan visits and countdowns
Discuss and plan future visits to have something to look forward to.
27. Exchange clothing items
Swap clothing items, like shirts or sweaters, to have something that reminds you of each other.
28. Send surprise sensual gifts
Send each other sensual gifts, like scented candles, massages oils, or lingerie.
29. Send each other your favorite books
Share your favorite books with each other and include a heartfelt note explaining why you love it.
30. Recreate a favorite date
Reminisce about a favorite date and both recreate it as closely as you can in your own locations.
31. Establish trust and understanding
Create open and honest communication about your expectations, concerns, and boundaries.
32. Share your daily routines
Share your daily schedules and routines so you can feel more connected to each other's daily lives.
33. Have "virtual" date nights
Plan a date night where you both cook a meal, dress up, and set the mood for a romantic evening via video call.
34. Practice active listening
Give each other your full attention when communicating and actively listen to understand.
35. Give each other space
Respect each other's personal space and need for alone time.
36. Have deep conversations
Take time to discuss deep topics, dreams, fears, and life goals to strengthen your emotional connection.
37. Send surprise compliments
Regularly send heartfelt compliments and messages to express your love and appreciation.
38. Practice gratitude
Share things you are grateful for and discuss why you appreciate each other.
39. Send surprise voice recordings
Share your voice and emotions by sending audio recordings of yourself reading poems or sharing your thoughts.
40. Create a shared playlist
Collect songs that remind you of each other and listen to it whenever you miss them.
41. Discuss your future plans
Talk about your goals as a couple and how you can work towards them individually and together.
42. Plan a surprise visit
Coordinate with each other's friends or family to plan a surprise visit and create a special memory.
43. Watch TV shows or movies together
Watch TV shows or movies at the same time and discuss them afterwards.
44. Create a shared bucket list
Come up with a list of activities and places you want to explore together in the future.
45. Celebrate important dates
Even when apart, celebrate birthdays, anniversaries, and other special milestones with thoughtful gestures or surprises.
FAQs about Long Distance Relationships
1. Can long distance relationships work?
Yes, long distance relationships can absolutely work. They require effort, communication, trust, and commitment from both partners, but with the right mindset and strategies, they can thrive.
2. How do we deal with conflicts or misunderstandings when we can't see each other in person?
Open and honest communication is vital when resolving conflicts in a long distance relationship. Avoid jumping to conclusions, address issues as they arise, and be willing to compromise. If necessary, consider seeking the help of a relationship counselor.
3. How can we build trust in a long distance relationship?
Building trust takes time, but there are things you can do to establish and maintain trust:
Be honest and transparent with each other.
Keep your promises and follow through on commitments.
Avoid unnecessary jealousy and learn to trust your partner.
Communicate your insecurities and concerns in a respectful manner.
4. How do we handle the uncertainty of the future?
Discuss your future plans and aspirations as a couple. Have open conversations about your long term goals and how you envision your relationship evolving. Take it one step at a time, and remember that it's okay to reassess and adjust your plans as needed.
5. What are the signs that a long distance relationship might not be working?
While every relationship is different, some common signs that a long distance relationship might not be working include:
Lack of communication or dwindling interest in maintaining contact.
Infrequent visits or canceling planned visits.
Constant feelings of loneliness, insecurity, or unhappiness.
Lack of effort from one or both partners to make the relationship work.
Remember, every relationship is unique, so it's important to find activities and strategies that work best for you and your partner. These 45 ideas are just a starting point to inspire and strengthen your long distance relationship. Enjoy the journey and keep the love alive!