Team of LoverDaily
Jun 30, 20235 min
Are you in a long distance relationship and struggling to find ways to keep the love alive? Worry not, because we have compiled a list of 45 things you can do to keep the spark alive even when you're miles apart. From heartfelt gestures to creative date ideas, here are some ideas to help you make the most of your long distance relationship:
Establish a routine for calls, video chats or texts that work for both of you.
Surprise your partner with handwritten letters, postcards, or small gifts by mail.
Share pictures and memories with each other by creating a photo journal or digital album.
Engage in friendly competition by playing online multiplayer games or mobile games.
Start a journal where both of you can write your thoughts and feelings, and exchange it during visits.
Sync up and watch a movie or TV show together using streaming platforms and video chat.
Plan a dinner date via video chat, where both of you cook the same recipe at the same time.
Explore museums, landmarks, or new cities together by taking virtual tours online.
Create shared playlists and enjoy each other's music recommendations.
Set up a video call and watch the sunset or sunrise together from your respective locations.
Fill a box with a collection of your partner's favorite things and send it to them as a surprise.
Order a meal to be delivered to your partner's doorstep as a treat.
Surprise your partner with e-books, online courses, or subscriptions to their favorite services.
Record and send heartfelt messages to let your partner know you're thinking of them.
Create a countdown for upcoming visits or important milestones in your long distance relationship.
Choose a book to read together and discuss your thoughts and favorite parts.
Expand your reading experience by inviting friends to join a virtual book club.
Find online language courses or apps and learn a new language together.
Create a blog or vlog together to document your long distance journey and adventures.
Collaborate on a jigsaw puzzle by each working on different sections and sharing progress.
Discuss your individual goals and create a plan on how to support each other in achieving them.
Pursue personal growth by taking online courses or workshops that interest you.
Take time each day to share the highlights of your day and what you are grateful for.
Choose relationship books to read and discuss together for self-improvement.
Share your goals and dreams by creating a virtual vision board together.
Discuss and plan future visits to have something to look forward to.
Swap clothing items, like shirts or sweaters, to have something that reminds you of each other.
Send each other sensual gifts, like scented candles, massages oils, or lingerie.
Share your favorite books with each other and include a heartfelt note explaining why you love it.
Reminisce about a favorite date and both recreate it as closely as you can in your own locations.
Create open and honest communication about your expectations, concerns, and boundaries.
Share your daily schedules and routines so you can feel more connected to each other's daily lives.
Plan a date night where you both cook a meal, dress up, and set the mood for a romantic evening via video call.
Give each other your full attention when communicating and actively listen to understand.
Respect each other's personal space and need for alone time.
Take time to discuss deep topics, dreams, fears, and life goals to strengthen your emotional connection.
Regularly send heartfelt compliments and messages to express your love and appreciation.
Share things you are grateful for and discuss why you appreciate each other.
Share your voice and emotions by sending audio recordings of yourself reading poems or sharing your thoughts.
Collect songs that remind you of each other and listen to it whenever you miss them.
Talk about your goals as a couple and how you can work towards them individually and together.
Coordinate with each other's friends or family to plan a surprise visit and create a special memory.
Watch TV shows or movies at the same time and discuss them afterwards.
Come up with a list of activities and places you want to explore together in the future.
Even when apart, celebrate birthdays, anniversaries, and other special milestones with thoughtful gestures or surprises.
Yes, long distance relationships can absolutely work. They require effort, communication, trust, and commitment from both partners, but with the right mindset and strategies, they can thrive.
Open and honest communication is vital when resolving conflicts in a long distance relationship. Avoid jumping to conclusions, address issues as they arise, and be willing to compromise. If necessary, consider seeking the help of a relationship counselor.
Building trust takes time, but there are things you can do to establish and maintain trust:
Be honest and transparent with each other.
Keep your promises and follow through on commitments.
Avoid unnecessary jealousy and learn to trust your partner.
Communicate your insecurities and concerns in a respectful manner.
Discuss your future plans and aspirations as a couple. Have open conversations about your long term goals and how you envision your relationship evolving. Take it one step at a time, and remember that it's okay to reassess and adjust your plans as needed.
While every relationship is different, some common signs that a long distance relationship might not be working include:
Lack of communication or dwindling interest in maintaining contact.
Infrequent visits or canceling planned visits.
Constant feelings of loneliness, insecurity, or unhappiness.
Lack of effort from one or both partners to make the relationship work.
Remember, every relationship is unique, so it's important to find activities and strategies that work best for you and your partner. These 45 ideas are just a starting point to inspire and strengthen your long distance relationship. Enjoy the journey and keep the love alive!